Don’t Leave Me!

The separation anxiety struggle will be real for your dog when the quarantines end

While you may be looking forward to going back to the office regularly or getting out to your favorite Gaslamp Quarter restaurant, your dog might have serious issues when suddenly you’re gone again.

(We say dog, because we know that with some exceptions, most cats can’t WAIT for you to get back to the old routine and leave them alone, already.)

Most canines thrive on routine and live for the time they have with you, so it’s important you know the signs of pending separation anxiety as well as what to do about it.

To find out if your pet might have an issue, try leaving the house for short periods, but don’t go far. If your pooch begins to bark, howl, whine, or scratch at the door, or tears something up while you’re away for that few minutes, chances are you are going to have a distressed dog on your hands when you’re gone longer.

Separation anxiety is no joke—upset dogs can not only do damage to your home and property, but to themselves as well. Having accidents in the house, crate destruction, pacing, howling, as well as chewing walls, doors, and furniture are not uncommon.

Some dogs even get anxious when they notice the signals of their owner’s impending departure such as putting on a coat and grabbing keys.

So how do you prepare your pet to be alone again? Here are a few suggestions to help acclimate your canine:

  • Start NOW. Don’t wait until the day before you begin your previous work routine. Ease super-attached dogs into it by telling your pet to “stay” and then going to another room for a minute before calling them to you. Putting your pet in a separate room—with a favorite toy or long-lasting treat for 10-20 minutes while you are home may help as well.
  • One of the most important things you can do is to begin leaving your dog alone in the home for varying periods of time. Leave for just a minute to start, then gradually increase the time you are gone. Your dog will (hopefully) come to learn that absences are safe.
  • Make leaving a non-event. Don’t acknowledge your dog or say goodbye when you go. Yes, it’s hard not to tell them you love them, to be a good dog and that you’ll be home soon—but it’s necessary.
  • If possible, getting your dog out for a walk, run, or some other energy-burning exercise prior to your departure is extremely helpful in reducing stress. A tired dog has a much greater chance of being a calm dog. (And by the way, it works for people, too!)
  • Reach out to a professional trainer or behaviorist if necessary. In the long run, this will be less expensive than a demolished den or vet bills from anxiety-caused injuries.

Finally, be patient and don’t give up right away as it may just take time for your dog to adjust to your new schedule—and don’t hesitate to give us a call at (858) 451-0990 if you need more advice or want to make an appointment for your pet!